There are times when it may not be possible for couples to visit wedding venues in person. Luckily, we’re living in an age where it’s possible to plan a wedding without ever having to step foot inside a venue.

Today, the Lightner Museum is sharing our Virtual Wedding Planning Guide to help your big day go as smoothly as possible!


Virtual Wedding Planning Guide from the Lightner Museum | Booking Your Wedding Venue


Part 1: Booking Your Wedding Venue Virtually


Tips for finding the perfect wedding venue…online!


1) Create a Digital Vision Board

Having a digital vision board not only makes it easy to figure out your wedding day aesthetic, it also makes it easy to share with vendors and wedding venues. Pinterest, Instagram, and The Knot App are easy to use and have plenty of inspiration right at your fingertips.

Once you’ve created your vision board, see if you notice any patterns. What colors do you tend to like? Do you prefer historic venues with unique architecture? How do you want your wedding to feel?

Seeing all your favorite details in one place will give you a better idea of how to create a cohesive atmosphere.



Virtual Wedding Planning Guide | Create an Inspiration Board on Pinterest or Instagram


2) Go Online Venue Shopping

Use The Knot, WeddingWire, and Google to find what you are looking for based on location and keywords. Here are a few examples of keywords to get you started:

  • St Augustine wedding venues
  • indoor wedding venues
  • ballroom wedding venues
  • unique wedding venues
  • destination wedding venues
  • historic wedding venues


Virtual Planning Guide From the Lightner Museum


Use social media! Look at Instagram and Facebook for real wedding coverage and inspiration. On Instagram, you can use the hashtag search feature in a similar manner to using keywords to search on Google.


Instagram Hashtag Search #staugustineweddingvenue


Do the venues that you are considering have a YouTube channel? Video footage of weddings and special events can be even more useful than still images when you are not able to see the venue in person.


Virtual Wedding Planning Guide From the Lightner Museum | Watch YouTube Videos


3) Read Reviews

It’s hard to know what to expect when you’re shopping through a screen. Read reviews from brides and grooms on The Knot and WeddingWire. These testimonials from REAL couples will give you deeper insight into the level of service provided by each venue, and give you extra confidence as you narrow down your decision.

If you can find reviews that specifically mention the experience of planning a destination wedding or virtual wedding planning, even better.


Wedding Venue Reviews on The Knot


4) Connect With a Person

Set up a call to review important information about the venue, such as price, availability, etc.

Ask lots of questions! What packages are offered? Are there preferred vendors? What dates are available? How many weddings does the venue host per day? Check out our blog with the Top 5 Wedding Venue Questions to Ask Before You Say Yes to the Address for some helpful questions to get you started.

Pay attention to the level of service that you receive from the venue. Do they respond quickly to your request for information? Do they have the people and resources available that make it easy to answer all of your questions? Your venue team will be an essential part of your virtual wedding planning process. Set yourself up for success by choosing the right team.


5) Schedule a Virtual Tour

Most venues will offer some sort of virtual tour experience.

If you schedule a time with a member of the venue team they can be available to answer your questions, look at available dates, provide additional photos, and help you decide if the venue is the right fit for you and your fiancé.

Pro tip: Write down a list of questions before your tour, be prepared to take some notes, have a bottle of champagne handy, and enjoy!


Virtual Tours | Lightner Museum Weddings St. Augustine


6) Say “Yes” To the Address!

Once you find the perfect venue and select a date, you’ll review and sign a venue rental contract—all online!

With electronic signature applications, sending and signing contracts from afar is fast and easy. Sooner than no time, you’ll be popping champagne and getting started on save-the-dates!



Virtual Wedding Planning Guide from the Lightner Museum | Planning Your Wedding Venue


Part 2: Planning Your Perfect Wedding Day Virtually


If you have already booked your dream wedding venue, there are plenty of options for keeping the wedding planning process moving, even if you are not able to visit the venue in person!


1) Choose the Perfect Wedding Vendors

Reading reviews on The Knot and WeddingWire is one of the best ways to find the best local vendors.

Reach out to your existing resources, such as your wedding venue and wedding coordinator, for recommendations. Venues and coordinators often have a preferred vendor list. They have gone through the process of vetting vendors based on the quality of their work and level of service and you can use their expertise to your advantage.

Pull up your venue’s Instagram and Facebook accounts. Which vendors are tagged most often? Are there any weddings that have a similar vision or style to yours? We make sure to tag as many vendors as possible in our social media posts so that you can narrow down which team might be right for you!

Once you have a short list, interview them via phone, Zoom, or Facetime. Get to know them and see how your personalities match. Do they “get” your vision? Are they timely and organized? Knowing that you can connect virtually will be key throughout the planning process!


Virtual Wedding Planning Guide From the Lightner Museum | Vendors Tagged on Instagram


2) Schedule Virtual Wedding Planning Appointments With Your Vendors 

You may get to a point in your wedding planning where you are feeling the itch to really connect through more than just email. Maybe you want to see your floral examples or get a better feel of the layout of your venue. Just because you can’t be there in person, doesn’t mean you miss out entirely!

Reach out to your vendors to see if they offer Facetime or Zoom virtual wedding planning appointments. Seeing  your vendor’s body language can allow you to connect with them in a more genuine way, and will work wonders to ease any worries when making those choices from afar.


Virtual Wedding Planning Guide | Zoom Meetings With Vendors


Venues are realizing the importance of connecting with couples long-distance. Many have created virtual tours of their spaces, allowing you an interactive opportunity to “walk” the space and “look” around. Extra tip: Colors can be very tricky to choose from a picture or on the internet. When it comes to linens, bridesmaids dresses, or even invitations, see if your vendor can send you a sample of the material in the mail. That way, you can touch, feel, and experience it as if you were having the meeting in the same space.


3) Tips From Past Lightner Museum Couples 

Samantha Santucci, Lightner Museum Bride:

“Thinking back, I remember not knowing where to start. I knew I wanted a “Wedding Weekend”, not just a wedding day. This brought me straight to the destination wedding idea.

[…] The majority of our guests were coming from the Chicago area. […] We wanted to bring them somewhere extremely memorable…We started looking into locations outside the US […]However, we wanted everyone to be a part of our day, and we realized staying in the country would be the smartest decision.

“We came across beautiful wedding venues. but then we came across the magical city of St. Augustine, FL. Talk about a dream come true! We had never been to St. Augustine. We had never even heard of it! The moment we entered the town, we knew this was where our destination for our love story would take place.

“We looked at every venue St. Augustine had to offer, but I’ll never forget walking up to the Lightner Museum and knowing this was where I would marry the love of my life, with all our family and friends surrounding us.

“The team at the Lightner Museum is out of this world. Brandy made everything go so smoothly and is always available. She and our planner Brittany Jones [of Uncorked Occasions] always put our minds at ease and assisted us in every step of the process. They made planning our wedding from afar a dream come true! Our guests loved St. Augustine and The Lightner Museum. This magical city has a huge piece of our hearts!”

Some of Samantha’s destination wedding planning tips:

  1. Hire professional wedding vendors (local, if possible)
  2. Visit your location (if possible)
  3. Trust your vendors
  4. Notify guests well in advance, if possible (especially for destination weddings)
  5. If you are planning a destination wedding, think about hosting a welcome party for guests
  6. Take advantage of technology when planning your wedding. Create a wedding website, Pinterest boards, and wedding calendar with important deadlines.


Destination Wedding Planning Tips \ Virtual Wedding Planning Guide from the Lightner Museum


4) Lean On Close Family Members

Do you have a trusted family member or a friend who lives close to your venue or vendors? If so, see if you can enlist their help!

Let them be your hands and eyes to keep the planning on track. We often see moms, aunts, brothers, or even close friends come by to help. We promise to guide them and provide our expertise along the way!


5) Plan A Future Visit, If Possible

Plan ahead and coordinate appointments with all key vendors. Stacking meetings will make the most of your time while you are in town. Just make sure to schedule coffee and lunch breaks. A cake or bar tasting break doesn’t hurt either! ????

The early bird gets the worm. (No, that doesn’t mean you have to send an email at 5 am.) It does mean that planning ahead will afford you more open availability for vendor appointments. This is especially important if you are planning a trip on a weekend, as your vendors will likely be trying to accommodate appointments in the morning before turning their focus to any weddings that might also be happening that day. We know that planning a trip—especially if you are planning a destination wedding from WAY out of town—can take time, resources, and effort.

We want to make sure that we have enough time carved out to give you the attention you deserve! The earlier the better!


Destination Wedding Planning Advice | Wedding Planning Meetings



There’s an old saying that goes, “together forever, never apart, maybe by distance, but never in heart.” If you’re reading this, and looking for a partner in this (sometimes crazy!) wedding planning journey, the Lightner Museum team is here for you. We can’t wait to chat with you and plan your dream wedding together!

From vendor recommendations to a comprehensive wedding planning checklist, we’ll do whatever it takes to ensure your wedding is everything your heart desires.

Take a virtual tour of our historic St. Augustine wedding venue. Then, give us a call to schedule an appointment to book your date or see it in-person.


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